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Books I Love

Passion Driven Education by Connor Boyack

Dumbing Us Down by John Taylor Gatto

The Underground History of American Education by John Taylor Gatto

Weapons of Mass Instruction by John Taylor Gatto

The Scientist in the Crib by Alison Gopnik

Free to Learn by Peter Gray

Home Grown by Ben Hewitt

How Children Learn by John Holt

Deschooling Society by Ivan Illich

Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn

Jesus the Gentle Parent by LR Knost

Free to Learn:  Five Ideas for a Joyful Unschooling Life by Pam Laricchia

Connection Parenting by Pam Leo

Waking the Tiger by Peter Levine

In An Unspoken Voice by Peter Levine and Gabor Mate

Hold On To Your Kids  by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Mate MD

Peaceful Parent Happy Kids by Laura Markham

Parenting from the Inside Out by Dan Siegel

The Whole Brain Child by Dan Siegel

Mindsight by Dan Siegel

The Conscious Parent by Dr. Shefali Tsabary

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

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We’ve been homeschoolers for almost a decade now We’ve been homeschoolers for almost a decade now.  And, frankly, I can’t imagine living any differently, nor would I want to.  But, for those parents who are, in effect, being forced to choose an educational path for their children, the mere idea of homeschooling can be daunting, at best, and overwhelmingly paralyzing.  Sometimes, it is all too easy for me to “forget” the confusion and anxiety of those early years and the pressure I felt to “have it all figured out”.   * * But, here’s the thing.  Homeschooling isn’t a destination, an end goal.  It’s a journey, a path filled with turn-offs, bumps, detours and so many other twist and turns to navigate.  Granted, school-at-home, or the online learning option that is available to families, certainly has an end goal.  But, remember, that isn’t homeschooling.  Homeschooling is about providing a learning environment that is personalized to your child, where your child is able to learn at his or her own pace.  And, because each child is unique, so is each homeschooling experience. * * That being the case, as I reflect on our journey, I believe there are a few principles that can guide your homeschooling, should you choose that path. Continued in comments.
An update on the dress my daughter has been design An update on the dress my daughter has been designing. Underneath the skirt is the hoop skirt I posted about earlier in the spring. It has been such an amazing gift to witness her growth and progress. #DIYdressmaking #selftaughtdesigner #mozeyingalong
I absolutely love witnessing her creative process! I absolutely love witnessing her creative process!!! She designs her own patterns to fit the project. Not finished yet; but, boy it's impressive! #selfdirectedlearning #creativeprocess #selftaughtartist #selftaughtdesigner #weareunschoolers #learningandliving
So often, indeed, too often, the dominant parentin So often, indeed, too often, the dominant parenting culture focuses on children's behaviour as the cause for all that is "wrong" in their family life, or at least, not going right. It is so sad to witness children suffering because of the parents' lack of awareness. #consciousparenting #parentinginpartnershipwithourkids #gentleparenting #mindfulparenting #endchildism #mozeyingalong #responsiveparenting #childhoodtrauma #beyourkidssafeplace #childrenshouldbeabletorestinourlove
My daughter has LONG hair. Other than a few minor My daughter has LONG hair. Other than a few minor trims, and one brief foray with bangs when she was five, she likes her hair long. I regret the bangs incident, not because of any harm to her hair. But because of how I did it for me, not her. At the time, her hair kept getting into her eyes, and she didn't like wearing clips or hairbands. As we were about to start VBS camp, and it was summer, I "convinced" her it would be a good idea. She was 5. She didnt care that her hair covered her eyes from time to time. She would just brush it away and move on. I cared, though. I thought it looked messy and I would be judged for not keeping her hair neat. Over the years, as I continue on my journey to trust my children, to respect WHO they are, and to live in partnership with them, the "bangs incident" as we refer to it, has become an example of an important lesson for me. It's HER hair. Being a child does not lessen the right she has to keep her hair the way she wants. Being her parent does not give me the right to demand her to keep it the way I want. As a child, my hair was just another area where I had little control. It was never, "would you like"; rather, "it's time to cut your hair". It seems like a "minor" thing, but it is in these small acts of living that our children learn that they have inherent rights to their own personhood. #mozeyingalong #parentinginpartnershipwithourkids #connectionparenting #gentleparenting #respectourchildrenaspeople #endchildism #freedomtoBE #trustchildren
Great article that clarifies education vs schoolin Great article that clarifies education vs schooling. It's an excellent reminder that self directed education (whether individually or in consent based groups) was the norm for centuries before government mandated schooling. https://fee.org/articles/the-myth-that-americans-were-poorly-educated-before-mass-government-schooling/?utm_source=email&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=FEEDaily #fee.org #selfdirectedlearning #selfdirectededucation #schoolingdoesnotequaleducation #unschooling #weareunschoolers #mozeyingalong #educationalfreedom
*cue Star Wars music* And, the build is complete! *cue Star Wars music* And, the build is complete! I loved watching this project come together. Some very special memories were made! #daddydaughterbuild #lego #legomilleniumfalcon #mozeyingalong
It's been ages....but my daughter convinced my son It's been ages....but my daughter convinced my son to chase her around outside. #siblings #specialneedssiblings #mozeyingalong #cerebralpalsy #cerebralpalsykids #wheelchairfun
After 13 years in hibernation.....the epic build b After 13 years in hibernation.....the epic build begins! #lego #daddydaughterbuild #mozeyingalong
New blog post. Link in bio. #connectionparenting New blog post. Link in bio. #connectionparenting #consciousparenting #attachmentparenting #mozeyingalong #pamleo
This thought has been percolating in my mind. Hav This thought has been percolating in my mind. Have we lost touch with the natural state of being with our children, enjoying their company, delighting in them? I understand this is a stressful time. All the more reason to just BE with your kids, give them space, time, and your loving attention. Our children feel safe through their connection with us. BE their safe haven. #parentinginpartnershipwithourkids #letthemrestinourlove #gentleparenting #attachmentparenting #mindfulparenting #peacefulparenting #consciousparenting #reflectiveparenting #responsiveparenting #connectionparenting #specialneedsparenting #unconditionalparenting
Earlier in the week I wrote a blog post about our Earlier in the week I wrote a blog post about our #unschoolinglifestyle. In it, I describe my daughter's latest project...a hoop skirt. Thought I would share some photos to go with it. You can read the post here https://mozeyingalong.com/2020/03/11/of-hoop-skirts-and-xbox-games/. #mozeyingalong #unschooling #weareunschoolers #unschoolinglife #unschoolinglifestyle #unschoolingfamily #unschoolingourselves #lifewithoutschool #radicalunschoolers #radicalunschooling #selfdirectedlearners #selfdirectedlearning #selfdirectededucation #selfdirectedlifestyle #unschoolingthekids #selfdirected family #selfdirectedlife #freedomtobe
The buttons on my son's #xbox remote were sticking The buttons on my son's #xbox remote were sticking, leading to great frustration. This is a big deal because my son spends a good chunk of time gaming and the controller has been instrumental in helpibg him develop his fine motor skills. (He has cerebral palsy.) *** My daughter looked up how to clean the remote, and within minutes, she and my husband took it apart and started cleaning and troubleshooting. *** My daughter's comment, "it's so cool to see the inner workings!" My husband's comment: "Jozey should charge for this service." #mozeyingalong #weareunshoolers #selfdirectedlearning #fatherdaughterproject #specialneedssiblings #specialneedsfamily #cerebralpalsykids
Are you a homeschooling mama looking to grow your Are you a homeschooling mama looking to grow your tribe? We all need support in this journey navigating motherhood, no matter where you are or what motherhood looks like for you! Let’s engage, let’s inspire, let’s connect! Join our follow loop for homeschool mamas! Here’s how: 1. Follow @creative_mama_collective 2. Follow admins @jordonburk @thisgreenschoolhouse @playingintrees @anywherethatiswild 3. Dm @creative_mama_collective for image and script 4. Post image & script to your account 5. Follow, comment and like all accounts using #hsmamacollective 6. Allow 24 hours for follow back. Loop will end at 6 pm CST on Friday, 3/13 feel free to archive 24 hours after this time) ➞ Please, do not follow to unfollow! ➞ Admin are not required to follow back as they are busy monitoring the group. #followloop #followloops #findyourtribe #homeschoolmama #motherhoodunited #homeschool #creativemamacollective #homeschooltribe #homeschoolblogger #kidsactivities #followtrain#followloopmama #momsconnect #community #homeschoolmom #homeschoolmum #homeschoolblog #homeschoolfamily #homeschoollife #homeschooltribe #homeschooling #homeschooler
New post about our unschooling lifestyle. Link in New post about our unschooling lifestyle. Link in bio. #unschooling #weareunschoolers #unschoolinglife #unschoolinglifestyle #unschoolingfamily #unschoolingourselves #unschoolingspecialneeds #lifewithoutschool #radicalunschoolers #selfdirected #selfdirectedlearners #selfdirectedlearning #selfdirectededucation #selfdirectedlifestyle #unschoolingthekids #selfdirectedlife #freetolearn #freedomtobe #mozeyingalong
New blog post!! Link in bio. #specialneeds #speci New blog post!! Link in bio. #specialneeds #specialneedsparenting #cerebralpalsy #cerebralpalsykids #parentinginpartnershipwithourkids #letthemrestinourlove #gentleparenting #attachmentparenting #consciousparenting #connectionparenting
So much of mainstream parenting emphasizes methods So much of mainstream parenting emphasizes methods of training our children to achieve a certain outcome. This is not inherently wrong. However, children are unique individuals who have the right to be who they choose to be. When we, as parents, are so invested in who our children become, it is because we have yet to do the work necessary to clarify who WE want to be. #parentinginpartnershipwithourkids #parentsaspartnersNOTtrainers #letthemrestinourlove #gentleparenting #attachmentparenting #mindfulparenting #peacefulparenting #consciousparenting #reflectiveparenting #responsiveparenting #connectionparenting #specialneedsparenting #unconditionalparenting #transformativemothering #motherhoodchangesyou #livinglovinglearningtogether #inspiremotherhood
Every tuesday, my daughter participates in art cla Every tuesday, my daughter participates in art classes at a local homeschool enrichment program. My son and I use this as am opportunity for mother/son hang out time. We grab lunch, chat about whatever is on our minds. Today was a "sing at the top of our lungs" day to this magnificent, celebratory soundtrack! #thegreatestshowman #mozeyingalong #selfdirectedlife #homeschoolinglife #unschoolinglife #mothersontime #livinglovinglearningtogether #loveourlife
When we meet our children’s needs, no matter the When we meet our children’s needs, no matter the age, we reaffirm that we are their safe place and they can rest in our love. New blog post. Link in bio. #mozeyingalong #letthemrestinourlove #gentleparenting #attachmentparenting #specialneedsparenting #unconditionalparenting #concsciousparenting
My daughter created this tapestry. She had an ima My daughter created this tapestry. She had an image that she translated into a crochet pattern using an app (@stitchfiddle) and worked on it for weeks. I love so many things about this....but, what stands out to me is the truth that this piece represents. The front side is the clear, beautiful image. The back side is....chaos...the loops, the yarn changes, the back and forth...but, that messiness, that chaos, was necessary to create the beauty. Without it, the finished piece wouldn't be cohesive, wouldn't be the clear image it is. This piece is a metaphor for our lives. The backstory is messy, the day-to-day can be chaos....but the end result is beauty!!! #weareunschoolers #unschooling #unschoolinglife #unschoolinglifestyle #selftaughtartist #selfdirectedlearners #selfdirectedlife #livinglovinglearningtogether
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    Be The Calm

    Heesun / June 30, 2020 / 0 Comments

    When you are experiencing emotions that cause you to feel anxious, afraid, excited, angry, frustrated or some other form of arousal, are you able to calm down when you hear someone say to…

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  • connection parenting,  conscious parenting,  healing trauma,  motherhood,  parenting,  transformative motherhood,  unconditional parenting

    Lipstick and Triggers

    Heesun / April 25, 2020 / 0 Comments

    My daughter recently started experimenting with lipstick.  And this has brought up all sorts of emotions for me.  She will be 14 in June. When I was in 8th grade, my mom started…

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  • attachment parenting,  connection parenting,  conscious parenting,  gentle parenting,  parenting,  Uncategorized

    My Childhood is the Genesis of my Parenting

    Heesun / March 27, 2020 / 0 Comments

    We are not born “knowing” how to be parents.  But, we are, all of us, born with a deep-rooted need to connect, to attach to at least one person on whom our survival…

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  • childhood trauma,  conscious parenting,  healing trauma,  motherhood,  parenting,  unconditional parenting

    I AM HERE….YOU ARE SAFE

    Heesun / March 1, 2020 / 0 Comments

    My son had a major orthopedic surgery back in 2013. At the the time of surgery, he was 9.5 years old. The surgery was necessary to address imbalances in muscle tightness and bone…

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  • conscious parenting,  motherhood,  parenting,  Uncategorized

    Parenting is a Relationship NOT a Practice

    Heesun / February 23, 2020 / 0 Comments

    In a culture where “doing” is prioritized over “being”, it is understandable that parenting would be measured by the same standard. There is no shortage of books, articles, and resources that reinforces this…

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  • childhood trauma,  healing trauma

    Triggers

    Heesun / February 17, 2020 / 0 Comments

    “Triggers”. The word is hard to ignore, especially when it has become so prevalent in social media, news and so many articles regarding the parent/child dynamic. And while I am not a licensed…

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  • motherhood,  parenting,  transformative motherhood,  unconditional parenting

    Feeling It

    Heesun / February 17, 2020 / 0 Comments

    Son: Umma (Korean for “mom”), don’t you know I love you. Me: I DO know you love me. Do you know I love you? Son: Yes, I know you love me. Me: How…

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  • motherhood,  transformative motherhood

    I Am Not the Mother I Thought I Would Be

    Heesun / February 17, 2020 / 0 Comments

    It is because of my children that I am the mother I am. I gave birth to twins, Max and Zoey, at 26 weeks. My daughter passed away at 2 months of age…

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